Continuation…
Dr. Shanker Adawal
Aries-Cancer
In cast of Aries and
Cancer at first, the attraction will be intensive, between Mars ruled Aries, a
fiery sign, and Moon ruled Cancer, a watery sign. But they may soon come to
realize the intensity is based on things they don’t understand about one another.
Aries likes and needs to win and will also enjoy leading while Cancer has
nothing against either winning or leading. Cancer is a Cardinal sign of leadership
despite the Crab’s attempt to hide his or her desire to lead beneath a veil of
feigned unconcern. Aries is also a Cardinal sign and the Ram’s horns being
equally as tough as the Crab’s shell one can see that there may be a few
skirmishes over who follows the leader in any game which they will be playing.
In relationship of Aries
woman and Cancer man, an Aries female will never be permanently at peace with
herself until she discovers a man who will want her to love him freely openly.
She will need a man who understands that if he will just allow her to be herself, she will give him all the adoring
love he needs to feel strong, vile and masculine. She will love him with all
her heart and soul and mind. Both of them will be intensely jealous. The main
difference between them will be that Cancer will enjoy it more than Aries. For
Cancer jealousy simply proves how much he is loved and needed and with this
woman he will get all of that kind of proof he needs.
Both will be fond of
money, fame and recognition as the other, however the Cander will able to hide
his ambitions better. Although they share the same basic goals of emotional
security and financial success, they have rather seriously conflicting ideas
about how to achieve them and what to do with money when it is there. Another
trouble spot could be Cancer man’s tendency to hide things and keep secrets.
The Aries woman is not so closely molded in the image of the Sphinx as he. When
Cancer will refuse her that what is on his mind, she may imagine all sorts of
far out things and torture herself into a fit run to completely clean with her.
In their sexual life, adjustments will also be necessary. In beginning his
tender consideration for her desires and needs will make her feel cherished and
therefore emotionally secure and he will be a fabulous lover. A cancer born
native can be as imaginative, subtle and clever in the bedroom as he is at the
bank. An Aries woman will always bring a kind of fresh innocence to her
approach of lovemaking and when she will love, she will love fiercely and
passionately. On the happy side of this relationship, a Cancerian can be very
amusing and entertaining and can make anything from counting money to digging
dams, wacky fun with loads of laughs. This will be the man who will not be
ashamed of sentiment and this will be a woman whose own heart needs a great
deal of tender, loving care.
In case of Aries man and
Cancer woman, the bedroom lure is strong, but the rough Ram may soon cause the
Cancer to withdraw, who would always demand sensitivity and romance. Aries will
be devoted to the demands of family and friends. Cancer, on the other hand, is
very devoted to family needs and the emotional needs of others. Aries may,
without realizing it, selfishly accept Cancer’s nurturing and giving attitude,
while contributing relatively little to the relationship on an emotional level.
Aries’s need for autonomy and independence often conflicts with needs for
closeness, intimacy and mutual dependency. Aries seems selfish, impersonal and
indifferent to Cancer, and Cancer may feel too needy and emotionally sensitive
compared to Aries. Any relationship between Aries and Cancer is usually
subjected to a generous sprinkling of fights over money that how to obtain it
and how to dispose of it. Aries man will be extravagant and Cancer woman will be
thrifty or at least she will be economical. Ever since childhood, Cancerian
woman will have fear that no one loved her and Aries man will have to teach her
that the best way to get love is to give love.
However, Aries can learn
compassion from Cancer and Cancer can learn to be more independent. But it is
likely to be a rough road at times with much adjustment needed on both sides.
This match demands mutual respect and clear boundaries. Without them, the
relationship will fall apart as it will not be a so perfect match.
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